Sin Broncas con la Bronca: Why do men fear marriage?

La Bronca talked with Eddie G «El Flaco» about the fear of marriage.

Mostly, why men avoid it.

Ideas about what men think.

On «Sin Broncas with la Bronca» with host Silvia del Valle, La Bronca, and her friend Eddie G «El Flaco», they talk about men being scared of marriage.

They look into reasons why men are scared at this part of being with someone.

To keep it short, here’s some of what they talked about.

Eddie G says he got married young (17 years old) and it didn’t last because he didn’t know how to keep a strong bond.

The hurts people have

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All human beings go through experiences that make us grow.

But a romantic breakup is one of the experiences that create a strong feeling within a human being, it completely changes them.

This highlights how past experiences, especially if they include failed marriages, can make some men more cautious about getting married again.

Traumatic experiences from previous relationships can create a fear of future commitment.

Worries about getting married

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Many have asked, «when’s the wedding?», and long-time couples hear this a lot.

Silvia and Eddie G talk about how some people push others to marry.

However, Eddie G points out that maturity is essential before considering marriage. Some men might feel they haven’t yet reached the level of maturity needed to commit for a lifetime.

Social pressure can be overwhelming, but self-reflection about personal maturity can lead to more informed decisions about marriage.

Being scared to promise

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No one is safe from being lied to or hurt, in love or not.

They talked about cheating, and why some men might cheat because things get same-y or boring.

This means some men are scared to marry because they can’t stay true.

Being scared of cheating can stop some from saying «yes» if they don’t trust themselves.

Worries about love changing

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Love has parts like flirting, loving, going out, and promising to marry.

But Silvia says love and marriage need work and promises.

Some men fear that love might get dull or lose its fun, leading to marriage issues.

This worry shows talking and keeping love alive stops things from getting boring.

Cheating is seen in men

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Sadly, many think men cheat. It’s a bad label for men.

They talked about how some places push men to cheat, as if it’s normal.

This can trap men, making them act against their heart.

Social and cultural pressure can be powerful and sometimes detrimental to healthy couples.

Roles in the fear of marriage

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They also talked about machismo and how some places expect old-timey guy roles.

This can make men feel they have to act a certain way, even if they don’t want to.

Battling between what’s expected and what they want can make men scared of marriage.

We hope you liked this summary and listen to the «Sin Broncas with la Bronca» podcast for more. See you later!